Child Sexual Abuse


 

What is Child Sexual Abuse?

Sexual abuse involves forcing or enticing a child or young person to take part in sexual activities. It may not involve a high level of violence. The child may not be aware or understand what is happening to them, or that it is wrong for the abuser to do this to them.

Sexual abuse may involve:

  • Physical contact including assault by penetration (for example rape or oral sex) or non-penetrative acts such as masturbation, kissing, rubbing and touching outside of clothing.
  • Non-contact activities, such as involving children in looking at, or the production of, sexual images, watching sexual activities, encouraging children to behave in sexually inappropriate ways, or grooming a child in preparation for abuse (including via the internet).

Note:

  • Woman can be perpetrators of sexual abuse, as well as other children.
  • A child under 13 is not legally capable of consenting to sexual activity.
  • Whilst the legal age of consent for a sexual relationship is 16 years, any sexual relationship or sexual contact with a 16- or 17-year-old by a person in a position of trust is still unlawful, even if 'consensual'.

How to tell if a child's sexual behaviour is appropriate for their age Access Parent Protects online child sexual abuse and exploitation awareness learning programme for parents and carers
Report suspected online child sexual abuse images or videos via the internet watch foundation

What to do

If you believe a child is in immediate danger , always call 999.

If you're worried about a child contact the Children's Social Care 01983 823435
Or, call Stop It Now on 0808 1000 900 , use their live chat or send a secure email using their website.

You do not need to know everything about the child before making contact.

For younger children

NSPCC Talk PANTS helps children understand their body belongs to them. It helps them understand they should tell an adult they trust if something makes them feel upset or worried.

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Family Safety plan

It’s important to think about the things a family can do to keep everyone safer. Making a family safety plan can help keep your child safe from sexual abuse.

Parents Protect explains further what a family safety plan is and how to create one.

It's important to get help if you suspect something is wrong, rather than waiting for evidence of harm.

Family Safety Plans (parentsprotect.co.uk)

Child sexual abuse investigations: A guide for parents and carers Stop It Now! logo

The Child sexual abuse investigations: A guide for parents and carers gives practical information about what will happen if there is an investigation about your child being sexually abused.

Child sexual abuse investigations: A guide for parents and carers (Stopitnow.org.uk)
 
 

Sarah's Law (Child Sex Offender Disclosure Scheme)

Sarah’s Law, formally known as the Child Sex Offender Disclosure Scheme, enables parents, carers, and guardians in England and Wales to request information from the police about whether someone who has access to a child poses a known risk due to past sexual offences.

Introduced in 2011, the scheme aims to safeguard children by allowing concerned individuals to make enquiries if they suspect someone may be dangerous. Disclosures are made only when deemed lawful, necessary, and proportionate, and are strictly confidential - shared only with the person responsible for the child’s welfare. 

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Child Sexual Abuse Toolkit for parents and carers

The Child Sexual Abuse Toolkit has been developed to support parents and carers across Hampshire and the Isle of Wight to understand, identify, prevent, and respond to child sexual abuse.

It explains what child sexual abuse is, who is at risk, what can be done to help prevent child sexual abuse, and the support availble. 

Child Sexual Abuse Toolkit (hampshirescp.org.uk)